Coping with a Breakup, Divorce or Death of a loved one

Losing someone or something you love is very painful. After a significant loss, you may experience all kinds of difficult and surprising emotions, such as shock, anger and guilt.  Sometimes it may feel like the sadness will never let up. As you deal with your loss, remember that everyone grieves differently. Whatever your grief experience, it’s important to be patient with yourself and allow the process to naturally unfold.

A serious problem can occur when grieving becomes set in as a pattern of behaviour. It can trigger depression, both mild and severe, which if not healed naturally, may go on to create suicidal thoughts. Sometimes we unconsciously wear our grief as a ‘badge of recognition’ with regards to how much we loved and miss a loved one. This is in fact the last thing a loved one would want. Sometimes we get so locked into the grieving process that we can easily forget those who are living.

Such a loss can often be experienced as a trauma. As with all other traumas, these events if processed healthily will have no long term harmful effects. Occasionally we repress guilt, resentment, fear, anger and these toxic emotions are a foundation for chronic health conditions as they block our energy system and prevent it from healing.

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Coping with a Breakup or Divorce

Moving on after a relationship ends It’s never easy when a marriage or other significant relationship ends. Whatever the reason for the split – and whether or not you wanted it – the breakup of a long-term, committed relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings. But there are things you can do to get through this difficult time. Even in the midst of the sadness and stress of a divorce or breakup, you have an opportunity to learn from the experience and grow into a stronger, wiser person.